KICK! HIT! GOAL!!!.

Summer? Time to break or make??

Figure out why you are relying on a broken relationship. i have many friend who get out of r/ship here and there. Bad time to do anything in relation. hahah.

The beginning of summer is always ripe with barbecues, graduations and weddings. Although these get-togethers often happily reunite us with family and friends, they also tend to unhappily reunite us with our exes of yesteryear. Indeed, even with all we have learned from painful breakups, some of us simply cannot resist the temptation of reconnecting with an old flame. And when that old flame is front row and center at a mutual friend’s wedding, the temptation becomes even more irresistible.

If this pattern of “making up and breaking up” sounds familiar to you, you might be part of a revolving-door relationship. Much like a revolving door, your relationship with your ex is never stagnant — he is always on the way into your heart or on the way out.

Your family and friends have heard the many dramas of your relationship with your ex more times than they would like to count, and although you know you sound like a broken record, something always pulls you back into the relationship. The revolving door whooshes again, and you are back in the middle of the broken (and breaking) relationship.

How can you stop this pattern once and for all, especially in the middle of summer social activities?

Change your pattern. When relationships get stuck in a revolving rut, it is generally because our lives are stuck in a revolving rut. By changing your routine, you can change your point of view and end a make-up and break-up cycle. How can you do this? Explore different activities, go to new restaurants, spend time with old friends, or even go on a much-needed vacation. Figure out what is keeping your life in stalemate (chances are that it isn’t just your relationship) and then make a change.

You know that your ex isn’t good for you, and you know that you aren’t good for your ex. So why do you keep returning to each other? Don’t fool yourself into thinking that love alone is driving your revolving door, as there are generally a myriad of different emotions driving your decision process. Figuring out these emotions and deciphering what is truly driving you to be in a broken relationship will help you stop the destructive pattern.

Sit down and write down the emotions that come to your mind when you think about breaking up with your ex for good. Whether you are jealous at the thought of seeing your ex with someone new, nostalgic at the thought of losing a close friend, or terrified at the thought of being alone and dating again, you might be surprised to discover that your list isn’t built upon love alone. Of course, all of the above emotions are valid and sincere emotions — but that doesn’t mean that you can build a loving, lasting relationship upon them.

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8:51 PM

Juz came back from 4km run. Shagged... In case ure wondering why leroy so gungho... he is goin to take part for several 10km run leh... Shiok, man!! Almost gonna take part in one the dragonboat in mid-may. IM MUST WEAR LIFE-JACKET, but i heard its quite small leh.

Exam's not over yet. I juz have one last sat and the rest are lining up nxt tue, wed and sat. Sat having a pre-chalet with the lads. Really forward for the chalet, we were like seperated for 12 years and now we are back!

Glad to know some of them are quite enthu, i hope none will put aeroplane. Given the fact, elaine(one of the 'activists') not goin to join us. :P I told her, im very sad, sad... :( hahahaaa...

By the way, i saw an advert this morning on COACH white bag. My sis said its damn chio lah. Shortly after, i realised elaine has a 'love at first sight' for this New COACH ERGO PATENT LEATHER PLEATED FRAMED SATCHEL. I bet gals will drool about it... yoohoo...

PS: Look so common to me lah... mauhahah

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5:52 PM

Hello peepz.... im surprised to leave my blog for almost 8months. haha... Last semester of year 3 is finishing. Studying for exam. :P

Im still the same old me, maybe put on some weight. This semester have been an enriching one. I enjoyed all the modules im taking.

Also, i believed my bond with my primary pal are getting stronger. We went out almost every fornight. We drank, ate and party till late. ShIok, man!!! Coffee club, essential brew, novena cafe n pub, prata shop and any places u can think of, to chill.

Having a chalet with them in May, i can foresee it will be a hell of a party! About 80% of the people coming will be dead drunk. hahaha... Guys, prepare cameras for 'merlion' city!
There's presentation tml, turning in early. Leave u with some photos!!!

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9:33 PM

SO many things to say but juz dun hv the discipline to pen it down...
First of all, all tutorials kick in! was kinda looking fwd to meet new friend in my SS and SARTOR course. SS is spore studies, just requirement whereby NUS students need to fulfil... Errmmm, tertiary style of social studies... I chose 'Employee management in spore'! it is a fun and interesting module... Basically u go there and talk and talk!!! hee. Oh... I got a funny lecturer too. Hes Dr Winston Lee, an old senior lecturer. He's nice, understanding and very LAME!! Lame not as in cripple but.wu liao!!! Hes famous joke,

'Class! theres a new King in NUS!!! Guess who?' we were like 'huh? change dean?' He's anwer was 'BURGER KING!(newly opened this semester!)'

-_-"" lolx...

I attended my Biz module ytd, meng da told me that his project group is the best!! HE'S THE ONLY BOY IN HIS GRP! i was like wow... ! Looking fwd to my lesson then, majority of them are guys, ENGINE guys! Lolx... Essay writing...

By the way, im flying off tml for 'family conference'... hee Be back nxt week...
Promised with more pics!!!

Some random photo... My wallpaper!!

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2:59 PM

Shortly after blogging abt my holiday, school starts liao... there's goes my enjoyable break. Time to mug again... This sem will be taking 2 biz related modules, hopefully everything goes fine... In fact ytd sch starts but no tutorial so no sch... i went to buy stationary and medicine. Went to suntec to wait for hp to knock off...
So long din see her liao, nice to see her in biz wear cos i hv nvr see her lidat, 'auntie-look'. hahah. joking! By the way, to my USSSians, nxt time see hp online, DUN MSN, COS SHE'LL BLAME U FOR HER INEFFICIENCY IN WORK. hee

Early in the morning, im selling 3 of my books. Need cash for new text.
Till then, jiayou mugging!!!

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8:33 AM

Its mummy's bdae this week... We went to Si Chuan Dou Hua at UOB center last sunday. Nice scenary and food. Its at 60storey!! Damn high, yet shIok!!! We ordered the set lunch and since its mom bdae, they gave us a glass of red wine! HEAVEN!!!

KungFu Tea 'Pour-er'

Nice photos right? My red wine is excellent... Yummy!!
From this...
to Red face!!!

hahaha... Cheers!!!

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1:47 PM

PLAY AT WORK...

This holiday i have home quite late also. Enjoying life like no tmr. Was out with my primary sch frenz quite often lately. On a friday nite where we tot of having a simple dinner at Novena Sq. Surprisingly, Beatrice is free to join us. Thats great! We met at Novena Sq and brought her to Revenue House for sushi dinner. The rest met us there thou. Sharon came with Fiona, whereas Lester came shortly after. Its the Japanese Village where they sell 99cents per plate. Quite Cheap. After dinner, we are looking for someplace to chill and we really went to a 'cold' place! The place called Eskimo (i tink) at sin ming ave. ICE CREAM are awesome with a perfect rm temperature. haahaa.

After a cooling ice cream, we decided to go to kok wei's pub at boat quay. Lester went home and collect his car. He's really slow to come down from home. We waited and waited. Finally, came down with excuses and off to CHamber 82! We jus drank beer and wait for our turn to sing hahah.

Sharon's abit high la... wahaha... Everyone was so happy that they wanna go clubbing the following wk... And for real, we went dLb O... hahaha.. Retro night... was fun and enjoyable la...

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1:25 PM

11 July 2007 i turned 23. I have a rather quiet bdae... haa.

On the eve of my bdae, my primary sch joined me for a KTV session... Thanks guys, really appreciate it... I met elaine early for dinner and then came edward. We met at 7pm to sing at Bishan Partyworld. Emme, fiona and sharon met us there. I sensed that sth fishy when they ran away from me when i spotted them downstair. Hmmm...
We sang a few songs as usual then, emme went out with edward to bring in the cakeS. Two small cakes and placed present on top of TV set. hahaha. They bought me a Issey Miyaki perfume. They claimed that the smell can attract gals wor. hahaha...
The particular week, i have chalet with poly pals at costa sand... It was not that fantastic but enjoyable. Alex rented a car that facilitates our movement. One of the most expensive chalets i ever have, a number of mates did not turned up and each of us gotten pay more...

the rest are eating durian but i cant, cos i drank quite an amt of wine le... :(

Check this match... 'Torres' Cheng, 'Teves' Leroy & 'Streaker' Eugene VS Alex, Soonhao & TC..

Thanks fot the night, guys...

"i want more..."

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9:22 PM

Offical holiday starts!!! So what have i did during the holiday? NOTHING!!!! Yes, LeRoy juz laze ard at home and spent $$ like water... Sad... Where do i splurge on? u'll know in a while...

Well, its holidae for me. And i have organised many gatherings, from primary sch to Army buddies... KTV, Chalet and retail therapy have ocuppied most of time till now. Have enjoyed myself greatly.
Hmmm... First up, will be Rita's wedding. She's my classmate in NUS. Dun ask me how old is she, but all i can say is... She's old enuff to get married hahah... No photo because i look plump in the pics. haa...
Next is of my family gathering... Fathers' Day... I suggested the rest of my cousins to bring our dad to KTV. haahaa. Fun? U bet! they enjoyed so much that we went again the following week. Sing sing sing...

Fathers' Day. They just cant get enuff of it. We, the children, hardly sang... So the nxt week, we have 2 rooms instead of 1. haahaa

Makan at grassroots club is fufilling... Answer the call, the rumbling of our stomach.

After all this family KTV, we have chalet. Its a yearly event for my mother's side. This year my sis managed to ballot Aranda chalet. Nothing special thou... Not much of pics taken. There's one that i wld like to share. Its one of favorite photo... My aunt's cocktail maccoroni...

yummyy...

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8:32 PM

After my trip, im back to carry on our project... Our efforts paid off with an 'A'wesome. heehee... My teammates had help mi with my part also. Thanks them alot. Like what cHeek said, 'Love u deep deep'. haa. Here's our house...

Complicated layout!!

Final product...

My lift's working

My lightning too.. "Dancing Queen..."

'Ta daaa'

We were told to videotape our project twice... The first presentation was impressive and superior like it alot. The 2nd videotaping was more like a welcome video for freshies... Sth like 'Hi, my name is leroy, welcome to NUS ECE dept. this is our project...' haahaa. An experience to rmb.

More more...

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8:13 PM

Heyhey... Blogging world welcome me back... Hail the KING!!!
Its more than 2 months since my last post. im juz pure lazy to blog la... hee. Tons of event surrounded for the past few weeks... i shall list them one by one from my very last post. haahaa.

As i were saying my Redang trip was unlikely, HAHAHA... I went! Gotten my grp mates for their understanding. Managed to finish my part of our project then (in a rush, so bound to hv errors), so my family and i went for a road trip to K. Trengganu... An 8 hour drive from Spore to Trengganu, dad n i took turn to the wheels. Hmmm... We set off at ard 9pm and when its ard 4am in the morning i took over. Dad reccommended a new route via a small town so i followed his instruction. Everything was goin fine, but when we reached the quiet, small town. We're LOST... No matter how we tried, we kept coming back to the same area. Eerieeee.... Woooooo. Guess what? When we are back to spore, we realised that that town was a cemetery! Scary... Till dawn, we got out finally and reached our destination ard 10am... Shagged road trip!!!

We went for a breakfast before visited our relative... KT are famous for their bun. nice!! oh. fried noodle too!

Shaggggggggged...

After a hearty breakfast, we went to my uncle hse. i haven been there for 10 years. Wow... Nothing much has changed. What caught my eyes was the garden. My aunt has a huge garden that has lady-fingers, papayas, mangoes, pamelos and flowers and also DURIANs... took some nice pics.

Next stop, we went to check in hotel lo. All i need then was a cold shower to reduce my body temperature. Then we went for shopping... eat and eat only... Visited the Batik museum, the aircon spolit and i din really want to stay too long. HOT~~~ weather... Thereafter, we went back to the hotel. We turned in early cos we're goin to Pulau Redang the next day!!!

Breakfast at hotel before uncle picked us up to the jetty. Anyway, the breakfast sux. Not much variety and few flies on the buffet food. Arghhh.

We are smiling not becos of the food, but the excitment to go redang... Took the coach then a ferry to the island.
Floating Mosque... like the NDP 07 platform

Without a doubt, redang lives up to its clarity of water and excellent scenary. Chio! Over there, they have a few different resorts. The one we went is very chi-na.. All chinese lo. I still prefer the 5-stars resort (show u later.) Anyway, we juz have 1/2 day there. Shopping and snapping photos... MOreMOre tea Inn movie scene is there too.

King's bdae celebration with firework!!

To be continued....

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3:56 PM